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Callie Elizabeth




02 Apr 1993

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callie_elizabeth asked:

21 Jul 2009

boy trouble. obviously! haha

soo i dated this guy for a while. his name is mike. and we dated for 8 months from the begining of the school year till april.. 4 days after my birthday. we were in love. I've only loved 2 guys i've dated. one was 3 or 4 years ago.. and then mike. we've been broken up for 3 or 4 months now but about a month ago i wanted to talk to him because i was sorry for acting out when we were dating all the time. anyhow we started to hang out and i guess we were friends with benefits. but it was more like we were dating without the whole "omg! we're dating" kinda thing. anyhow we were really close and I started going out with this guy Ryan a couple weeks after mike and i decided to be friends with benefits and it feels like i can't keep my mind off mike. i really do like ryan he's a great guy but mike.. i thought he was the one. I don't know what to do ! will someone help? I'm not cheating on anyone.. i'm dating ryan now. hahah not just friends with benefits



ctl888 says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

I think you need to figure things out fast b/c this is not fair to Ryan. I think you should talk with Mike and see if you want to get with him... Do you think Mike wants to get back together? How does he feel about you seeing Ryan? I just think you should straighten everything out before things get messy and bits you in the ass later.


callie_elizabeth says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

when i talked to mike the one time.. he said he didn't want to get back together ever but if we were friends with benefits then there would be a chance of us getting together one day. and i said i didn't want to wait forever... would it be happening? and he said no. i know that he doesnt want to get together and he doesn't want to be friends.


miszaseababez says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

I really advise you to decide if you wanna be with mike. I have been in ryan's shoes before and I ended up gettin hurt so if you are in love with mike dont stay with ryan.. you could end up hurting ryan ya know.! However if mike does not treat you right and ryan does..despite how much you love him dont settle for less ;) hope that helped


barbipixi says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

you mean you dated mike, you guys broke up, you guys shagged a few times as friends with no obligations to eachother, then you stopped, started shagging ryan with no obligations.

do i got it?

#1 if the guy doesn't want you as his girlfriend but he wants the sex he doesn't respect you or your body

#2 you may not respect yourself or your self esteem may not be where it needs to be

#3 if a guy doesn't have a real attachment to you he doesn't care about you like you do him.

most guys are willing to poke anything that's hot. they don't really care about feelings (some do) but i don't think mike loves you like you loved him.

and i dated a guy named mikey and we were friends with benifits basicly because he never 'offically' asked me out. so he also had another girl on the side but i had low self esteem and thought as long as i was number 1 that's all that mattered

then i got a friend on the side and you know what i loved mikey and i liked my bud with benefits but deep down i knew neither one of them was the guy i would settle down with and would really love me the same way i loved them.

girl i burned those bridges and got picked up by another hot guy. and if they don't treat me right i've learned to give them a second shot and if they can't do right by me i leave their punk asses


jasm1na says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

maybe you should stop being friends with benefits until you find yourself,

tell these guys that (they should understand)

because in the end if you continue like that, you'll just hurt everyone that much more! 8-|

good luckkk:thumbup:


ziggy says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

If you are in a relationship & are cheating you should consider the guys feelings bcuz if one gets hurt your going to feel really sorry:-s


missymm says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

I can tell you, that you should probably leave mike. But oh dear, the hardest thing for me to EVER do; is get over a guy.. mike seems like he's using you;;His hookup buddy?! Idontknow. Ryan seems like a great guy.. im sure you dont want to lose that for a jerk. But it's all up to you, i know for a fact this wasnt helpful. but it was a personal opinion.


auri says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

Just tell both guys you would like to be friends until you sort your feelings out.

I would really think about it, and if you really love him, then let him know how you feel, that you love him and you cant quit thinking about him.

He might still have feelings for you too, so maybe you two were just meant to be(:

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