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Brittany Drinks




28 May 1990

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brit_71208 asked:

22 Feb 2010

how should i feel about my boyfriend telling me he isnt over his ex because she was his first?

okay, so i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and a couple of weeks ago he told me that he couldnt get over his ex, not sexually, but as in saying he couldnt get over her because she was his first. he says he wants to be with me and he's trying his hardest. i dont know how i should feel about this. i really need help on this =/



vanillabb says:

Posted on 22 Feb 2010

Alot of people still have feelings for their first person who they have sex with, its just natural.

But it dosn't mean that he needs to go say that to his girlfreind, that's just plain rude.


jessicalouise says:

Posted on 22 Feb 2010

Thats something that probaly wont go away in your head for a long time , talk to him about it , it might leads to massive arguments but say exactly how you feel , and so will he and if you both really love each other after horriable argument you will always come out better dont give up 2 years, i hope you sort it and that helps a little


barbipixi says:

Posted on 22 Feb 2010

it really depends alot on age. usually younger people aren't going to be as serious about new relationships as others.

and if a older guy is saying that he just doesn't really want to commit

you always think about your ex's sure but you have to understand things that broke you up aren't going to change? did she leave him or did he leave her cause it sounds like she did the dumping.

one of the first guys i ever dated tells all his girlfriends that it's hard for him to commit because he dosent' want to get hurt again but it's really just a cop out. he just doesn't feel the same deep relationship that they want to get out of the relationships.

truthfully i had one bf that told me he didn't know what to do. he liked me and was dating me but couldn't decided if he should be with me or his ex so i told him point blank.

"If you can choose me straight off then you need to be with her" and i broke up with him. it's that simple. if i'm not more important to you than an EX then you don't need me : P and i sure as heck dont need you!


brit_71208 says:

Posted on 24 Feb 2010

Yes, that makes sense and i understand that, and he broke up with her. Thanks

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