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Brandi Ingham




06 Jun 1999

Hi! My name is Brandi and i live in Merrimack NH. I live with my fiance Dan.
We have been dating for about 2 1/2 years and we plan on getting married.
We have 4 guinea pigs. Peanut, Squirt, Goober, and Pumpkin =]
AND! i just got a rat named Bugsy

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brandi_dan asked:

12 Sep 2009

I seem to not be able to keep friends...

and this hurts...i get really close to someone and then something inside of me shuts them out. Right now i have a guy friend named Andrew and we have known each other for at least 4 years. same friends. live a few towns away from each other. well we always talked online. never met. until finally i was like im sick of this. we get a long great. why not finally meet up? So we did. it was awesome. hung out, played wii whatever. had a good time. so i asked him a few days later if he wanted to hang out. and i just went to his house and we just watched tv and hung out. then he invited me over to his house and his friends were there and we went swimming and stuff. good time. we were supposed to hang out last monday but i think he got busy and he forgot. so he said sorry once and when i told him we could still hang out he said 'no im going to a cookout' it just seemed so..meaningless...and now he BARELY texts me. and i find myself getting really depressed i will text him things like 'whats wrong?' 'you know gonna stop texting you because i think i annoy you so when you get bored and want to talk. text me' 'why havent you been talking to me?'

and i am so scared that i come across as being like..psycho but im not. and he knows i have bad depression and one of his ex's was alot like me so he doesn't judge me for having an off day or anything like that. and i told him today 'you know. if you dont want to talk to me. i don't know why its so hard to just say fuck off instead of making me think i still have a chance to be your friend' and immediately i said 'im sorry..this is how i get and i don't know why and it sucks'

ive had this problem for over a year. and ive lost easily 4 good friends from it.

i get along better with guys than girls. and so yeah Andrew is hott and we get along GREAT. but we are only friends. we will flirt and stuff. but we are just friends., does anybody have any..idea as to why i do this?<



ctl888 says:

Posted on 12 Sep 2009

Humm.. I do not think you need to blow up at him and text it to him. If he is busy or if he is hanging out with other friends .... then he is busy. I do not think you need to get angry when he does not respond... maybe that is why he is trying to put some space in between you and him. You might have smoothered him those few days when you did hang out. And now he may want some space... or he may think that you like him and he does not want to give you the wrong impression.

I mean, I text my friends to go out to do things or meet up. sometimes things come up or they may forget ..but I do not text them with hateful words like, " know. if you dont want to talk to me. i don't know why its so hard to just say fuck off instead ...." If my friends do not text me back then, I brush it off and think, Oh well they may be busy..." then i just go about my day and do other things. If i had a friend that would text me those mean things I would ditch her too, it is just too much. a friend to me is someone I get along with and is easy going and I do not have to feel like I am walking on 'egg shells' around her afraid i am going to piss her off... And I do not like dramatic people...always starting sh*t... then saying, 'sorry' then pretending nothing ever happened.


hayley___hamm says:

Posted on 12 Sep 2009

i agree

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