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bllueicepanda asked:

26 Jul 2009

How to be more than friends with benefits.

Ok i am friends with benefits with this guy. We do stuff but not sex just other stuff but he wants sex. We both arent virgins. I want to have a relationship but i dont want to say it i want him to want to have a relationship.



Dont say i shouldnt be friends with benefits cause its slut I dont want to hear it. I just want to know how to make him want a relationship

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dominique

dominique says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

i agree with createrofpout...

auri

auri says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

I agree also.



Just get to know him more, maybe hang out as friends at first.



When the time is right, let him know you care for him...and you would like to be more than friends with him.

stortstack

stortstack says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

i agree with auri try hang out as friends first

takethistoheart93

takethistoheart93 says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

i agree with thecreaterorpout, i kinda-ish had that. Except it was the other way around we were friends we went out and then all he wanted was sex phonesex sexting so i broke it off. but were still friends. Just spend time with him, and ask him stuff about getting to know him more, and staying away but still incorporating the friends with benefit idea. sorry not much help

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

Yes, I agree with thecreaterofpout. :thumbup:

myradiosayslala

myradiosayslala says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

i agree with the createrofpout :)

jasm1na

jasm1na says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

i wouldn't go as far as that,

he wants it, shouldn't he want YOU?

i would wait until he or yourself make it official,

just say it casual: so are we considered boyfriend/girlfriend yet? ;)

then if he says no.. im sorry to say that he's not really into you for you but for other stuff you can give him.

if he says yes, then great for you :):):)



good luckkk :thumbup:

jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

be the hard girl thats hard to get.



tell him that theres no sex if you two arent in a relationship



after awhile once you guys are close, than you can reward if, But make sure, you know that after you have sex he stills wants to be with you.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 27 Jul 2009

actually i had a friend with benifits but i know i had low self esteem so it's y i accepted it i wanted more but sorry girl a guy who can get the 'milk' for free isn't going to buy the 'cow'



he doesn't want a relationship and if you suggest it there is a chance he'll go for it (maybe because he knows it'll mean he'll get sex), but there's just as big of chance he'll have another friend with benifits too

bllueicepanda

bllueicepanda says:

Posted on 28 Jul 2009

He doesnt know i wont do sex. he thinks there is a chance

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 01 Aug 2009

tell him that you would like to be more than friends with benefits. tell him that you don't want sex and that if you were to have it, then you would have to be in a real relationship and not just friends with benefits. he should want you, not what you have(:

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