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Bethany JL




28 Apr 1992

Im 17. Im a freshmen in college. I have 6 bros and 5 sisters! Im into photography. I love digital editing, love makeup and beauty, such as art and nature, i love humor and the beach!!:D I like to help ppl and study ppl! ppl and their problems has always fascinated me for some reason.

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bethanyjl asked:

13 Oct 2009

You think its fair to...

Date your exs best friend or friend? Or nah to much drama, to mean? cause i sometimes hear of it and i dont get why ppl think its so horrible. I mean if your exs best friend wants to date you and you them, then why should it be such a big deal? its your ex after all! But still ppl say its to mean and not fair. Whats y'alls take on it?



pyt says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2009

I guess it's not that big of a deal if you handle things carefully, i mean there's no need to make things dramatic.


maestro_97 says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2009

No, it's not sooo bad! My sisters exs best friend dated my sister, and now thy are the perfect couple! If the best friend doesnt like it, it's his problem. But my sisters boyfriend is still the best friend of the ex of my sister! So with some guys, i think theres a problem, but not with the others!


crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2009

i dont find a problem on that issue

why to have drama it is ur EX so why is it unfair u are saparated and u dont have a relation ship

this is soo chilish to 2sai it is unfair

its non of theis buissnes who u date and dont and when they got a problem then too bad


jessd says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2009

i dont think its a big deal.. i mean whats the problem. your not hurting no one.


yoshi_baybee says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2009

well girls usually get upset cause of that. like try to be in their shoes

and your friend and ex like each other. of course you wouldn't want to see

them together because you once had a relationship with that guy and you'll feel

somewhat weird of them going out.bcuz u might or have had feelings for that guy so seeing them 2gether will make u sad even doe they will be happy

but honestly i don't think it's so much of a big deal either but it's able to put your friendship in danger if she doesn't agree with it


barbipixi says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

sometimes it's unfair for the friend to go after their bud's ex.

think about it you dated a guy and then your bud starts dating them when you break up.

did he break up with me for her?

have they been going around while i was dating him?

sometimes those questions can cause a rift between friends and most people want to just avoid that all together. it really depends on the type of person and if they broke up witht he ex first or not. and if they're the type of person who thinks an ex is still their property. whitch happens alot lol

i don't see a huge problem with it. but yea there are certain cercumstances where i would say don't go for it


ctl888 says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

I guess it depends on the people... if the exes best friend already kinda spoke to you ex and your ex thought it was fine with him.. and he does not think it is wierd. i just know I couldn't do it. Once a friend has dated a guy...that guy is in my friend zone and I will not see them more than that. I can't be attracted to them. I wouldn't date a friend's ex....or even if I knew someone that dated this guy. it is just kinda wierd for me. But if everyone seems okay with it in your party then you feel comfortable with it is your choice.


fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

it all depends on your situation. It shouldnt be a big deal, but sometimes some people will make drama out of nothing, I think if anything the best friend should be the one that should be worried about hurting your ex. if theyre ok with it then I wouldnt sweat at all. its a things thats more between them not you I think an him.

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