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Bethany JL




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Im 17. Im a freshmen in college. I have 6 bros and 5 sisters! Im into photography. I love digital editing, love makeup and beauty, such as art and nature, i love humor and the beach!!:D I like to help ppl and study ppl! ppl and their problems has always fascinated me for some reason.

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bethanyjl asked:

19 Sep 2009

Well im having my first break up...

he was my first love:( we dated for 9 months. But we both decide that we need to focus on college and put dating on hold. but it still hurts. Just curious my heart is hurting so bad that its actually hurting physically. is that normal? and whats the saddest break up you've ever had?



hanlou says:

Posted on 19 Sep 2009

i think this is normal, its like stress, it really hurts.

i just dont understand why u had to break up, why dont you have like work nights play nigthts so u can still see eachother.

My worst break up was when i was 18 i had been with the person a year and spent all my time with them and everynight we even had a routine and we where due to marry. one day he didnt turn up to my work so i texted him where are u????? He texted me back saying we need a break. There was nothing wrong with our relationship so i thought he was joking. I triedf to ring him, but no answer. He didnt spesk to me again, so i went in to college to see him, this girl came up to me and said quick go around the corner and look he was there kissing another girl and he had been cheating on me for two months, it was so bad i wanted to kill myself. i have never seen him since, but 4 years on he is still wit that other girl and he is really really fat lol. Every song that came on somhow related to me and him.


ctl888 says:

Posted on 19 Sep 2009

Yup, it is normal, your heart is aching. this will happen. I hope you feel better. time will heal your pain and saddess. I have had heart ache before but it was because my ex was making me feel bad about myself...mainly verbal abuse. So try to focus on your schooling like you originally planned.


mikiya04 says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

yea mental and emotional hurt always turns into physical when it hurts long enough. its great that you want to focus on school, but when love comes in, you cant help but feel that something is wrong with it. dont fret, if it is meant you will be back together because it doesnt seem that you guys ended on bad terms.

My worst break up was when i was in high school and dating this guy i met at a party. we dated for about 7 months, but he would disappear for weeks at a time. it was ok at first because i was dating someone else. then i found out that he had a baby and was staying with the baby's mom. the worst was that her sister went to school with me. just being in the situation was so backwards and akward.

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