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Bethany JL




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Im 17. Im a freshmen in college. I have 6 bros and 5 sisters! Im into photography. I love digital editing, love makeup and beauty, such as art and nature, i love humor and the beach!!:D I like to help ppl and study ppl! ppl and their problems has always fascinated me for some reason.

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bethanyjl asked:

29 Sep 2009

How much is to much...

Okay if you let your boyfriend (that your not sleeping with or going to cause your going to wait till your married) say rub your inner thighs, booty, in between your legs and rub -kiss your (covered by bra) chest is that giving him to much? or is that just normal loving between bf and gf. ppl have asked me if so and ive always been curious about what you think?



brittrules0 says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

ok i was like tht before the deed happened to me. but it's normal bf and gf loving cuz at least you're not cutting him outta everything. he gets to still touch ya that should be enough and if he cant understand that then he's not worth it


hanlou says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

i think touching the knee and the bottom of the back are fine, but with the bra is too much as i thinki its abit too sexual its like teasing him.

I think if your not ready and you want to wait thats it, you dont do anything sexual because its not fair on the other person.


ahroarah says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

do what YOU feel comfortable doing. if he has a problem, he isn't even worth it. don't let him wrap you around his little finger for a second. i can't stand girls who dont stand up for themselves in relationships. if you feel comfortable with him touching your breasts, go right ahead. just remember, in the heat of the moment, people dont really think like they would normally.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

most (not all but most) will push this limit as far as it'll go then some will even try to con you into going further because of 'blue balls'

i do believe in only doing what you're comfortable with and if you like touching and loveing like that to it's fine but you do need to have a talk about it won't be going anyfurther.

mostlikely you won't meet the guy you're going to marry until you have a life of your own. i believe the best marriages are the ones where you both have your own lives and can take care of yourselves and you choose to share that life with another.

so alot of the times when you're still living on your parents money and in their house the people you date are doing the same and you aren't grown enough to make the decision of marriage.

so just keep that in mind if you like getting that experiance then go with the flow but make sure he knows there are rules. and yes you can get preggers if he gets sperm on your undies : P

so keep your pants on atleast : P


cookiemonstuh says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

yeah, it kinda depend on your age but you sound like teens. but like it snot like your having oral sex or anything. the shest thing mite be much but it snot bad. as long as your okay with it.


midsummer_dreams says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

That's not as far as you COULD go without sleepin with him. Atleast your not giving him blowjobs or lettin' him do (EW) 'things' to you. So yeah I get what you mean. I think its finee. But really, be careful. He might get too horny during one of these makeout sessions and well, just make sure hes comftable too. if he feels like he might lose selfcontrol during something, dont do it.




bethanyjl says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

I totally agree!:)


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

hmmm i see your point but isnt it better to give a lil then to cut it off completely? like wouldnt the strain be to much?


hanlou says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

If the strain is too much then they aint worth it. My boyfirend didnt even kiss me with his tounge for 6 months. Untill i felt i could trust him.

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