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beforethestormx3

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beforethestormx3 asked:

02 Jun 2011

i feel like i have no friends...

nd the girl that i consider my best friend is amazingggg and i feel like i can trust her with pretty much everything... the thing is i feel like she would rather hang out with other people than me. shess freinds with with the "popular", i guess would be the right word, people. and i find myself often on the outskirts of their group because all the guys make fun of me mostly in a joking way, but sometimes they take it too far.. and i just feel like i'm no where near as pretty or nice as the girls. i'm verrrrry close with this friend but sometimes i think she likes her other friends better because she tends to ignore me when they're around. also when we hang out and they say they wanna hang out shes ALWAYS says no then the next day she'll hang out with them but she wont invite me or anythingg... i understand 100% she doesnt have to hang with me allll the time but it would be nice to get invited to hang out with other people once in a while.. sorrrry this is long but what should i doo?

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fearlesssuicide

fearlesssuicide says:

Posted on 02 Jun 2011

i think, ok i see your point that your close to her, but honey she doesn't sound like a good friend and i don't think you guys will stay friends in the long run. i understand how u feel i had a freind like that and in the end she didn't really like me and only felt pity for me but now she's kicked out of her house and just had a baby and the guy ditched her so basicly she was a jerk to me and the karma came back and bit her in the bum. now i'm not saying this is how your friend is but she does not seem like a good friend you may want to reconsider how close you guys really are. i mean she lets guys make fun of you even if they say it's a "joke" most of the time they mean it. so just think about this person and i mean really think about this before you do anything about it. so if you choose to stay her friend then ok.:) if not then thats good to. and you listen here missy you are beautiful and pretty no matter what anyone else says ok. you are Beautiful. good luck :)

babyblue

babyblue says:

Posted on 02 Jun 2011

ah i feel bad :( but i agree sometimes u just gotta let go :)
its hard cuz like u said ur very close with her but at the same time she might just consider you one of her good friends not her only bestfriend if shes going out with these other people and never including you cld b she sees that you wouldn't fit in with her other friends .
like my advice wld b to not ignore her if she talks to you first but look for better people that will want to hang out with you more and see how she reacts you know make it seem like you don't see her as your only friend too. like screw the populars go hang with ppl you like and like you even if they're considered weird by other people you might also help them cuz they might be in need of a friend too.
andd your b e a u t i f u l in your own way ^.^

babyblue

babyblue says:

Posted on 02 Jun 2011

andd btw dunt worry about writing a long question thats what becomegorgeous is all about helping girls figure out themselves inside and outside : D

gtan88

gtan88 says:

Posted on 03 Jun 2011

well, your close friend probably has other friends too. she cant just have one friend only. i mean, its not like her friendship circle only involves you. sorry if i sound rude... there are probably some more girls there who would hangout with you right? or you could try telling your friends how you feel. ;)

beforethestormx3

beforethestormx3 says:

Posted on 03 Jun 2011

if i do decide shes not a very good friend how do i become not friends with herr anymore? hahah ive tried ignoring her some dayss but she always talks to be cause shes one of my closest friendss.. thank yu btw :)

beforethestormx3

beforethestormx3 says:

Posted on 04 Jun 2011

thank youuuuuu :)

beforethestormx3

beforethestormx3 says:

Posted on 04 Jun 2011

lol i said i understand she doesn't have to hang out with me all the timeee, but it would be sometimes nice to hang out with her AND other peopleee but she's weird about it. thats all im saying but thanksssss

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