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beeshi asked:

03 Nov 2009

how can i get over someone who i learned to love in time?.

at 1st i didnt want to b wth him bt then time passed nd i fell for him. he started getting calls from a lady . at 1st he told me they met at church and they were just friends. then i noticed hed talked to her a lot. i asked why he told me she would give him christian advises about everything and that she was a good friend. then he told me they will start a business together .. at last i found out they were sleeping together. he forgot his fone and by accident she sent him a txt .. i saw pictures of them almost naked. she is 32years old .. thats 12 years olther than him.. shes fat and ugly . he claimed he loved me that i was everything to him asked me to forgive him cryed to me saying he was a dumb ass for cheating and lying. why did he cheat ? they are still having something together. like he finally got me to love him.. we wanted to start a family and be married i asked him to delete her number many times but he wouldnt he even lied and changed her number. it hurts and i still love hm he cheated



barbipixi says:

Posted on 03 Nov 2009

you have to remember you can't change a guy and he's not the only guy who can treat you right. in fact he doens't know how to treat you right.

he's a stupid boy. at least a man can decide what he wants and make it happen.

alot of guys out there will take sex where ever they can get it as long as the girls are only with them. it doesn't matter if they sleep around they have feelings for each girl. but it's NOT RIGHT. i don't care maybe he really does in his own twisted way love you but there is a very good chance he's having those EXACT SAME feelings for her.

it's not right, it's not normal, and it's NOT ACCEPTABLE!!!

it's ok to love him but it's not ok to stay with a guy like that. if you forgive him it's because you are lacking not because he'll get better. once a cheater always a cheater ESPECALLY IF HE LIES ABOUT THINGS LATER!.

he's not planning on leaving her if he can't stop talkin to her.

sorry but you probly need to burn that bridge and look for a MAN someone who knows how to treat a LADY RIGHT!


barbipixi says:

Posted on 03 Nov 2009

yea please think about what you really want out of a relationship and how much work BOTH people are suppost to put toward it and deff consider burning that bridge before you end up in too deep


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 03 Nov 2009

If hes not willing to let her go then you need to do the letting go. Hes using you girl. Let him cry but at least you wont be! you deserve somebody that will treat you right! Somebody thats just happy being with you and dont need no other women in his life.


ctl888 says:

Posted on 03 Nov 2009

Wow, sorry to hear all that girl. I bet you are very desvasted. I wouldn't not deal with all that mess. I would just walk away and not turn your head. It is not worth your time. Plus it will also be better for you.... you will always be thinking what he is doing all the time... when he is not with you. it is not worth your stress. He is still young....and was sweet talked by an older woman. it is just probably the sex.. .. i believe it is time for you to focus on you and your goals.. move on and work on your future... =)

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