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My name is Rebecca, but everyone calls me Bec or Becca. I am a drama finatic, and are starting my school certificate this year. I am pretty smart, but im funny too. There is no way i fit into the category of nerd! I love music, but i cant sing or play, and i want to be a surgeon or an actor when i grow up. When i finish school im going to travel the world, and i have plans to find an amazing husband and to have amazing kids.!

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becca_16 asked:

04 Dec 2010

When i started at my new school, many rumours were spread about me. How do i get rid of my rep.?

I started about 7 months ago. Rumours included that i was gay, that i raped girls, that i had no friends, that i was on drugs, and many more. Obviously they aren't true. I have finally found some new friends, but some people won't even talk to me because of the rumours. I'm not sure how to get rid of this reputation and get a fresh start.

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gosupermodel_is_back says:

Posted on 04 Dec 2010

I would not worrie about it. but try to prove you haven't did that stuff. They want to get to you. Whatever they do don't let them get to you be strong.

This is what someone on answerbag had to say about this :
I have had this recently actually and I feel that I have handled it quite well. I was accused of sleeping with some girls boyfriend, which I did not do. At first I was upset by it and hoped that if I ignored it then it would just go away, but then this girl became spiteful, saying personal horrible things to my best friend and my boyfriend, and coming on to my boyfriend!! Eventually my anger overcame me and I confronted her in front of all of our friends. I told her that she should get her facts straight before spreading rumours or accusations about someone and that she was making an idiot out of herself. At first I wondered if I had done the right thing by losing my temper, but now everyone is on my side, and realises that the rumours weren't true and respect me for standing up for myself, especially in front of friends.
If you confront this person you make it clear to them that you are fed up of their behaviour, put them in the clear about what, if anything, really happened and say that by pursuing this campaign against you they are making themselves look stupid. Don't use other people to back you up or just stay quiet and hope the rumours will go away because once something has been said it tends to stick unless you dispute it. You wouldn't want people thinking that you had murdered or raped someone would you? So why should you put up with being labelled with lesser crimes?
Good luck in fighting your rumour spreader!!

sena95

sena95 says:

Posted on 04 Dec 2010

Well I would tell you to ignore the rumors and live your life , you dont have to explain to the whole school that the rumors are not true , what matters is what you think of yourself ..many people try to hurt someone by rumors but you would hurt them back by not caring ...and umm.. try to focus on your studies and forget those people ... Success in life is what makes people jealous .... if you need anything more .. ask me , and I will be ready to help :)

becca_16

becca_16 says:

Posted on 05 Dec 2010

Thank you so much. Yeh they can hurt. Things like this can show you who your real friends are. Thanks again.

becca_16

becca_16 says:

Posted on 05 Dec 2010

Great answer! Thanks to you, and the person on answerbag. It means alot, and come to think of it, that's right, and i will. Thanks again.

becca_16

becca_16 says:

Posted on 04 Dec 2010

Thankyou so much :)
I'll try to do as you say, but as you can imagine it is hard.
Thanks again.

sena95

sena95 says:

Posted on 04 Dec 2010

I know ...but you have to walk with your head high , and ears closed :D

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