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bear14 asked:

18 Aug 2010

do you ever feel you\'re not as pretty/beautiful as people say?

like when you look in the mirror, and critize you ever look at yourself and be i'm so not pretty. i feel like that everytime i look in the mirror....but when i have pictures of myself (like school pictures or pictures other people take) i feel like i look pretty....i wonder why that is....i don't really wear makeup....although when i go out i usually put a little eyeliner on just to outline my eyes because if i don't i look sooo plain.

i honestly don't see how people think i'm pretty (i have two reasons for that....i don't like my eyes because when i look in the mirror, i see the left one as off centred....but no one else can see it [i had surgery when i was 14..but for other reasons], and the second reason is my nose was broken too, so i don't have the nice straight's just like a lump to me).....i was just wondering if anyone else felt this way too



ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 18 Aug 2010

Oh yea...I used to do that all the time. lol..I picked out little things and critisized (sorry if this is misspelled) myself about them. For example, I don't think I'm heavy, but then I have what my aunt calls "baby fat" on my stomache and I would constantly always critisize myself about it. There were tons of other things I would critisize about myself too. And it's worse when people make fun of you in school and you have friends that don't feel confident about their looks either.


1. I started telling myself "you got to stop focusing on the things you can't change about yourself and start focusing on the things you can".

2.Look at the best features on you (inner and outter).

3.Try different makeup/hair ideas to always change up your look.

4.When somebody gives you a compliment..take it and say thank you and really belive it.

5. Surround yourself with positive people that feel confident about themselves (not too over confident).

6.Embrace your flaws...that's what sets you apart from everyone else.

7.Do little things everyday to help you feel confident..exercise, wash your face, paint your nails, etc..

8.It's best not to look in the mirror just to point out flaws (I used to do that all the time) Hope this helps. :)


shadyca says:

Posted on 18 Aug 2010

yeah, I had those days too, everyone has them, right? usually I don't have problems with my appearance but there are times (especially when I'm PMS-ing lol) when I just find so many flaws on myself. my left eye is a bit off centered too and then I freak about it, then I find something else, for example-I hate the fact that I'm blind as a freakin bat, I hate my hair, I hate my cheeks, I hate this and that. but somehow rationality beats everything and I think:hey. I am the way I am. I have people that love me because of that. I'm (more or less XD) happily in love, I got people that care for me and they couldn't care less if my cheeks are baby like or nice and feminine. we are our biggest criticists but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


jwlover4ev says:

Posted on 18 Aug 2010

Yeah I have those days sometimes where I feel like oh my gosh, I'm so fat and ugly but that only usually lasts for a day or two and then I yell at myself and get over it haha! And sometimes I look in the mirror and I'm like dang girl! You are hot! Haha so what I like to do is every morning pick one thing that you like about yourself and say something like "hey, you have beautiful eyes" because if you keeps telling yourself that you will start to believe it.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 18 Aug 2010

happens to me a lot..some days i'd fuss over how my teeth aren't perfectly aligned or how flabby my arms are. but when I do feel beautiful, i see a pretty face in the mirror. I guess it'a all bout how you feel about yourself. Count the fact that people tell you you're beautiful..then really, you are.


babyblue says:

Posted on 18 Aug 2010

I think i get what your sayin cuz i feel like that sometimes too but thats life and thats why I learned to accept myself and learn we can't always have what we want ...its hard but true. aha don't worry my nose is not perfectly straight either i have like this bump in the middle which makes me hate when people try to take close-up side pics of me .


barbipixi says:

Posted on 19 Aug 2010

we're the hardest on ourselves. it's good to try and focus on the best parts cause we're around ourselves most so we tend to see things that disturbe us more than anyone else would.

just try to see things positively and usually you'll start to feel better about yourself in general.

truthfully i could focus on my big butt as a negative cause it's mainly fat and it looks a bit squashy instead of firm

i could focus on having to shave my legs twice a day to look smooth

there are tons of things like my nose is big and my teeth aren't as white as they could be

but you know what if no one else seems to care why should i ?


ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 18 Aug 2010

Oh yea number 9. Always remember there is somebody in a worse off situation then you. Would you rather look the way you do now or have cancer?? Just gotta think about that.

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