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bear14 asked:

08 Jun 2010

Can a boy really be oblivious?

okay so i'm on the pill and when i'm on my 'off' week, i don't know if my boyfriend knows what that really means...like idk if he just thinks it's not safest to have sex or if i'm actually on my period (he has a sister and a mom of course so he somewhat grew up with it..but i'm not entirely sure if he was exposed to it)...anyway, like when we're fooling around, he'll ask if i'm on the pill...and then i just don't know if he knows, you know? like he's seen my tampons and stuff, but i just don't know...it seems like he doesn't know......my friend from college (a guy in our group) knew all about it...whenever one of us girl would be a little crabby, he'd be like is it your time of the month? (he was funny).....anyway, can my boyfriend really not know about it or is he possibly just not saying anything?

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barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

ofcourse he may not know.



alot of times girls will be imbarrassed of their 'time of the month' and if they have a son or brother they'll keep it to themselves and 'shelter' the boy. he probly has an idea ofcourse how it works but he really doesn't know how long it is or that it comes with the pink pills.



my bf had a mom and brothers only. he knew about periods but he didnt' know all the facts lol ofcourse he thinks it's gross but he can deal cause it's something he had to learn about. you can just ask your bf if there's any questions he has about it but lay it out for him.



when you're on the 'pink pills' it's also time for the 'crimson wave' it'll last almost the whole week usually. if he want's to get frisky you'll need a towel : P

mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

yes he's kinda clueless, alright... although you and your bf should be able to discuss safe sex openly. I mean that's the whole point of you being on the pill, right? So you can have safe sex. Try to bring this up at the right moment (not when you're about to do it, ok!?) and find out what he knows. Then enlighten him from there.

bear14

bear14 says:

Posted on 09 Jun 2010

thanks maeve!

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