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babiijuiciix3 asked:

31 Jul 2009

Ok Seriously

Ok well I do have a new man and hes like an angel willing to do whatever for me...but my baby father like how do i get over him it kills me to think about him with another girl is that normal will it go away....i know its being selfish i just wish i coulda work things out with him like you know what i mean...he did me wrong so bad he use to hit me mentally abuse me cheat like why do i still love him?....thats him i know hes gorgeous but do u think its a physical attraction im still feeling




nana_0601 says:

Posted on 31 Jul 2009

I feel like at this point , it is the physical attraction girly. He's your baby's father, so obviously you guys would've had to have sex. But i'll go all nerdy now, and say during sex, a hormone called oxycotin is released in the brain, and how it works is it's a bonding hormone, so you sorta connect/ bond with the first male you see, at that moment, your baby daddy . So even when he hurt you and all, you somehow felt bonded/attracted . Although you have a new guy now, you still remember him cuz of the oxycotin/dopamine (same thing found in nicotine that makes it addicting, the body makes it naturally in a small amount) but that's always why people remember their "first time" and whatnot, cuz the bond is still there. But, no worries, overtime, you'll get over him, your new man loves you, if he's willing to do anything for you, hold on to him and if he hurts you, thens you can find better. The best thing to do really , is try to focus on other things, if he's abusive and cheated on you, he doesn't respect you for nothing, so he's got to go ! Plus, your baby needs a nice, better dad or dad-like figure :D


purty_j0ezy_4 says:

Posted on 31 Jul 2009

r u sayn that u still feel sumwat attractd to ur old bf? dats normal, i sorda feel da same way. lyk, a hav a bf, nd i love him with all o my heart, nd so does he. but, sumtimes wen i c my ex wit noothr girl, i sorda feel lyk weird, nd i dont lyk it, but, that dusnt meen i dont love my bf. i actually helpd my ex to get a new gf. its normal i mean, if thats is sumn lyk wat ur goin thru, hope i helpd. if u want send me a mesg so we kan tak 1 on 1 kk ;D


xxkrisbychikenxx says:

Posted on 31 Jul 2009

couldnt have said it better


barbipixi says:

Posted on 01 Aug 2009

no duh you are very attracted to him

you gave him your body and a child

but you have to remember guys don't really change

and as bad as it was before you may not think it's as bad since time can help things fade but if you remember as sad/mad as you were before it will be just as bad and hurtful if it happens again and you have a child to worry about

is he really a good role model for your baby?

is he the type of guy you'd want your daughter or mother with?

then y would you want to be with him. you can think he's hot and think you'd be so good for him, but remember is he really good for you

find a man who can love you like you diserve!


amaay says:

Posted on 02 Aug 2009

i agree with 'BarbiPiXi'



hanlou says:

Posted on 02 Aug 2009

My ex boyfriend was exactly the same this was 3 years ago. He used to take alot of drugs and when he was in the state he would come home a beat me he even damaged all the ligements in my arm, but i can officially say i still love him and still speak to him, but i know if i stayed with him i possibly woudnt be here today. He has a girlfriend which at first i found hard and i have a boyfreind. My boyfriend is amazing and does everything for me and i know i am safe and that he loves me. At first it was hard i didnt understand why he would be so nice like i didnt deserve it.. Now i am glad we have both moved on. It was extremely hard to do and noone understand why i still love him but when someone is that abusive they are a big part of your life because they are all you think(like whats going to happen next) but when this stops its like you dont know what to do anymore and then when you have someone nice its hard to understand.

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