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babiedoll asked:

13 Jun 2012

How to cope with being a 3rd wheel?

All of my friends (except for a very few) all have boyfriends, and so do many fo my cousins, so whenver I'm at any partys or family reuinions I'm usually a loner coz I don't fit in any where. Especially at family gatherings, as all the teenagers there all have a boyfriend or girlfriend and I can't sit the adults coz they usually tell me to go away. I'm sick of being a loner and not having anyone to talk to. Please can I have some advice!!

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yolo_behappy

yolo_behappy says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2012

I don't have a boyfriend either. It's not a bad thing at all not to have a boyfriend,; you just haven't met the right guy yet. So don't let that get in your way. :) First of all, you said that there are a few of your friends who don't have boyfriends, and maybe they are lonely too. Go hang out with them! Also, don't your friends who have boyfriends hang out with anyone else? I'm sure you can have a great time with them too! Just don't consider yourself a "loner." You're just one of those people who have to go out of their way to make friends, and that's good for you in the long run. :) Just be friendly to everyone you meet and they will want to be with you.

ravenousgirl1

ravenousgirl1 says:

Posted on 14 Jun 2012

oh jeez, the 'I'm a loner cause I have no boyfriend' stage :P..
GIRL! Having a boyfriend at your age does NOT matter. Besides teenage guys are usually looking for one thing..if you know what I mean. Seriously, they'll act sweet, and give you things, and act like they REALLY care about you..just to get you into bed. You said you have friends that don't hve a bf, so..hang out with them! They might understand.
Just be more outgoing, force yourself to talk to guys, and ur friends with bf's. I have 2 friends who I mainly hang out with, and both have bf's, and I don't. But that don't matter to them. I FORCE myself to talk during conversations, and I come up with witty things to say, which makes everyone laugh.

vampkisses

vampkisses says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2012

I agree with the other girls, hang out with the friends that don't have boyfriends! (: Even try to make some new friends to hang out with too, new friends is never a bad thing! When you have family gatherings just bring a boy thats a friend with you, you'll feel a little better (: you can even just bring one of your girl friends and that should be a little less miserable for you... Talk to your friends that do have boyfriends and tell them you feel left out and set up a girls day once a week or however often... Go meet guys! talk to new people! Ask one of your friends to have her boyfriend bring some friends and it could be a group hang out and maybe you'll meet someone interesting! (: just try your best to keep up with everyone else, you don't need a boyfriend and you probably won't find the right guy if you're looking, it'll just happen! In the mean time, good luck and I hope this helped!

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