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hey im ashina mae kelmis but people call me margie or karz umm im 17 years old and i love to dye my hair random colors. Im korean and russian mix and i was born in korea and brought into the us when i was 7. i speak my mind and i am a very silly person most of the time. i can be your best friend or yMore saduisahduiash dsau

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ashinamae asked:

28 Oct 2010

ok so ive been dating this guy and i need advise?

ok so i have been dating this guy for about 2 weeks and his ex was texting me saying she and him had sex last friday when i no it was wrong. becuz i was with him. so it was false. and he tells me he never wants to lose me and i kinda dont believe him. we are together everyday and i love being with him but its hard to trust him.. and his ex had a test done to see if she was havin his kid and she aint.. but now she keeps askin if im datin him even though she has a man... a few days ago my mom saw him walking with her.. and now i am having trouble trusting him.. i mean i want to but then agian idk.. i just dont want to get hurt so please anyone what should i do??

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mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 28 Oct 2010

personally, I think this guy is trouble. obviously, he's still got some baggage to deal with, not to mention an ex who's a little too clingy. see i'm not even sure if they're truly over. So hun, spare yourself from getting hurt while it's early. It's not that you shouldn't be seeing this guy for good, but at least let him take his time to come clean. If he's sincerely into you, exes and other parties should be out of the picture.

death_bycupcake

death_bycupcake says:

Posted on 28 Oct 2010

You just answered your question. You are scared to trust him. Trust is a big number one in a relationship. Emotional Baggage is another bad thing to bring in a relationship. Until he is truly ready to end his ties with his ex and leave all their problems at the door, he isn't really ready for a relationship. She shouldn't be trying to cause problems between the two of you and he still hanging out with her. You know in your gut you don't trust him. End it. Maybe he needs to figure out what he wants before he is truely available. It always sucks when you start going out with a guy and then a few weeks later they break up with you because they still have feelings for their ex. It makes you very untrusting of a lot of people.

megatron

megatron says:

Posted on 29 Oct 2010

you should totally listen to death_bycupcake.

Trust is a huge deal in relationships, darling.

firefox_12

firefox_12 says:

Posted on 29 Oct 2010

Well if you're heart's been broken that many times you gotta trust in your past experience...

Either he wants you or his ex. It's his problem-he has to chose. Yes, this guy is way too much trouble, just like Mistress said, along with cupcake&Magatron. Listen to them-they are smart people.

sena95

sena95 says:

Posted on 29 Oct 2010

He is a guy ! so he might be lying and he might really like you, but dont say anythin and jus talk to him as a friend . and when he proves that he is honest then you can date him. and that he doesnt talk to his ex anymore!

ashinamae

ashinamae says:

Posted on 28 Oct 2010

yeah i know but she has another boyfriend so i guess she moved on but she keeps lying about stuff and i know she is lying becuz i was with him at that time wen she trys to start stuff. i mean he is grerat with my family and is always with me i jus idk he likes me i....he does but im scared to trust him... cuz ive let my guard down to many times down before and got my herat broke :( so idk

ashinamae

ashinamae says:

Posted on 28 Oct 2010

yeah i know but she has another boyfriend so i guess she moved on but she keeps lying about stuff and i know she is lying becuz i was with him at that time wen she trys to start stuff. i mean he is grerat with my family and is always with me i jus idk he likes me i....he does but im scared to trust him... cuz ive let my guard down to many times down before and got my herat broke :( so idk

mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 28 Oct 2010

exactly :)

ashinamae

ashinamae says:

Posted on 30 Oct 2010

thanks for ur help everyone.. but we broek up :( his mom told him that if he didnt date his ex again then he would be homeless so now he blocked me from everything and we dnt talk anymore :(

firefox_12

firefox_12 says:

Posted on 24 Nov 2010

I'm sorry. :(

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