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Gloria Ana Spoljaric




03 Nov 1987

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ana_banana asked:

13 Jan 2011

Confused and Lonely.

Okay, so I moved to a totally different country, leaving all my friends and close relatives. Oh and I'm 14. I now have a job, and I made a couple of friends, but they are all boys. And I like one of them really much. We are quite close, and I admitted that I like him. We had lunch together, baught me lunch, and we hang out a bit while we were on our break at work. It was all good and I was happy, but when he was talking about himself, he said he already has been intimate with girls since the age of 12. That kind of shocked me. He's 16 now. He seems like a really nice guy, he's funny and caring, but sometimes he ignores me, but than talks to me later. I don't get him. It's just that I really feel good when he's near me. I would talk to a friend, but I don't have any girlfriends, and know I'm sad all the time, wondering if it was a bad idea about admitting that I like him. Should I get to know him better? Should I help him cuz he use to have family problems.i don't me please?



becca_16 says:

Posted on 13 Jan 2011

Wow. Since twelve?!
When you say he ignores you and talks to you later, do you mean texts, or IM, or in person? From the few details you gave it seems he might be playing you...but it could also just be that he was busy. I suggest not getting involved with family issues (i did that once and it backfired badly), but let him know you're they're and just support him.
I do suggest getting to know him better, but make sure to give him room. Let him make the moves, see what he wants and where he takes you. You seem really nice im sure he'll come round.
Hope that helps sweetie xx


cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 13 Jan 2011

Yes, you should totally help him. Maybe he's actually sensitive about his family problems and he felt lonely at the age of 12 so he started being intimate with girls at that age. I mean, I'm sure there's an explanation, right? Just get to know him better, and if you feel like you're reaally good friends, don't tell him you like him right ahead. Imagine that he doesn't like you back, and if so, you lost a friend, cause it would be awkward for you two to hang out while he knows you like him. get closer with him, and figure out what's more important when it comes to him: friendship, or love. And about the lonely thing. I've been living in the same place, same country since I was born, and I feel kind of lonely 24/7. Yeah, I'm a weirdo. Anyways, try to be friendly with girls at your school. Try and do some school activities that you know most girls are into. Just, be yourself. :)


lourdzpm says:

Posted on 13 Jan 2011

yeah..get to know him better. :] as you've said, you're new there, right? :] and think plus. :] don't get upset about you telling him about how you's been done..i mean, sure he might use it as an advantage but, it's now up to you if you let him.. :] i think you should start looking for some things that might help you adjust in there... :] Good luck!


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 13 Jan 2011

i don't really think he intentionally ignores you. he's probably just distracted at times. anyway, it won't hurt to carry on being friends with him, so long as he doesn't take too much advantage of the fact that you like him. Also, i would suggest befriending more people outside work, it might not be as easy as it sounds but trust me, you'll come around.


ana_banana says:

Posted on 14 Jan 2011

aww guys thank you so much, I feel better when I have more opinnions :), one more thing if it's not a problem.
So I already admitted that I like him, and he said that he knew that all along.
Then later he asked me why do I like him. I told him and he was just smiling at that.
After a while, he told me that he was more of a "solo" type of guy.
And I said "Was that a rejection, or .?" - it just slipped out, I wasn't thinking :/
And he said "no, don't think that. Oh gosh, I'll explain to u later."
Then ( sorry i don't know how to explain the situation, so I'm just quoting.)
After a while, he didn't explain, and he saw that I wasn't exactly in a good mood and just said: "Do you need a hug?" And just hugged me. I wanted to let go after a few seconds, but he said to keep hugging him. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO THINK NOW? :((
after, he said that he doesn't know me very well,but he does like me, and that's why he's not ready for a relationship. Than I said: " I know, I want to know you better." ( we were at work, so we couldn't actually speak to each other for a while, but then he came, patted me on the shoulder and said: there are plenty of more fish in the sea.
So, first I thought he didn't want anything from me cause he doesn't know me well, and that's fine.
But with the fish and the sea thing.. I thought he was rejecting me in a nice way, cuase he is really a nice guy...

he asked for mu number and everything, I just really don't know what's going on.

This is the last time, I need help :(

I love you all for taking ur time ...


cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 17 Jan 2011

Just tell him: hey, you told me you'll explain everything later. I hope later's now. And , well, talk about it

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