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amy tran




01 Nov 1990

amy tran :D

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amy_ asked:

25 Jun 2009

there's this guy..

well, we met last year at the social and we chatted and stuff but then i didn't see him for like three-ish months, then he somehow got my msn off a friend and we started talking to each other, yes, over the internet. we go to the same school but different campuses so i barely ever see him, and because he's so shy we never go to the movies or anything.

so, my question is, should i make the first move or would that just make me seem desperate?

he's a really good guy but i'm scared if i do ask and he rejects then it'd be really awkward for us as friends.

thanks in advance,

amy :s



adazilla says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

i agree with lalalalala.

know what he likes to do first, like go to the movies, hang out at the mall, etc, etc.

ask him when he's free, and say that you want to go to (fill in the blank with whatever you think you'd both like to do), but all your friends don't want to and ask if he'd accompany you. bringing all your friends might intimidate him, and who knows, if you like him, what's to say one of your friends won't? competition is the last thing anyone needs.

and if you've made a good impression, next time he may be the one who asks you out! (:


hikaru_hyun says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

agree with lalalalala-chan and adazilla-chan

Well if you seem to really like him just start off as friends cause if you ask him out too suddenly . It might break of your friendship . Well just hang out with him . get to know each other .

Then who knows he might even take you out


gbpkid says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

ask him to the movies or something as a friend, or get some of your friends and double date it, it would take the edge of things and if he knows some more people there besides you then he will feel way better about the whole situation.

just try and hang out a little first before making any moves, number 1) you dont wana get shot down number 2) yu dont wana appear desperate =)



fairy16 says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

lalalalalala is right:thumbup:


vnessa001 says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

I agree with everyone have a group date and socialize with one another catch up on things you've never known about each other n if you are still into him go for it :D


amaay says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

'lalalalala' - i agree with. :]



leahbabe says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

haha gbpkid good answer i did that..

i really liked this lad called nath & hes really shy so i got his mate and my mate to ccome out with us and when they were together we were ok he wasnt as shy ;]

soo i agree totally with you!

x x x


barbipixi says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2009

totally go for it. shy guys are great. they appriciate you and they usually will actually try to make things work out.

don't you think he might have been worried you thought he was desprate by finding your msn and working up the nurve to msg you?

i bet he had it for a while and it took a min for him to do it


chloebabeess says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2009

Hmmm , You wont seem desprete :D .. Its a turn on for some boys when a girl is makin the move, Casually ask him would you like to hang out or somthin someday , Or go the pictures :thumbup: .. You know he likes you if he rememberd you three mounths later so i say gio for IT :lol:

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