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allisonkatherine

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allisonkatherine asked:

16 Oct 2011

Happy Sweetest Day? Right.

So my boyfriend completely forgot about sweetest day and hung out with his friend ian.

I don't mind him spending time with his friends.. but I was a little upset..

I messaged him saying "Happy Sweetest Day. Have fun with Ian."

He said he was sorry, and I know he is. and it wouldn't of really made a difference if he had remembered.

I just.. we've been dating for seven months. He didn't get me anything for my birthday. He treats me like I'm one of the guys. and every anniversary we just hang out. and walk around the mall. I don't like being at the mall. I don't want to go to a movie.

What I want is for him to be cheesy and buy me a little teddy bear. One from the dollar store. I don't care. Just something that shows me that he still thinks of me as special and his girlfriend.

He doesn't understand that..

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auri

auri says:

Posted on 16 Oct 2011

He wont know all this unless you let him know. I know usually girls do discuss things that bother them and guys seemingly "never hear" anything you say. But honestly, all you have to do is stop him, and let him know it bothers you. Like if he wants to kiss you or something, just be like "hey can you hold up one second, I just wanted to let you know it bothers me how you treat me like your guy friends..." just get to the point and keep it short and if he continues all you can really do is remind him that it bothers you. Other than that, there isn't much you can really do. Sorry /: My guy gets the same sometimes..just guys being guys.

bumble_bee_123

bumble_bee_123 says:

Posted on 16 Oct 2011

Well hes not treating you the way us girls should be treated. Treating you like " your one of the guys" is not a good sign it just shows how little he thinks o you. Not buying you anything for your birthday, never buying you gifts, never doing what YOU like just proves he is not putting the effort you are putting into the relationship. If it continues like this any longer I know its hard but its time to say bye-bye and move on. You could do soo much better and find someone who atchully cares about how your feeling.... Show him your not his little puppet who he can control and that your a free indepentant girl who makes her own choices. Its his lose for not treating you right!!!!!!

jackie_walsh

jackie_walsh says:

Posted on 16 Oct 2011

I think he's taking u for granted. Is he really worth it? maybe you need to tell him that directly and tell him that you like him but want him to treat you as a special girl, not "one of the guys"

mollyd32

mollyd32 says:

Posted on 16 Oct 2011

Well honestly (coming from a girl in an all boy class) being treated as one of the guys is a good thing, he's saying he trusts you and he cares about you and hes not afraid of showing he likes you around his buds. If it bugs you that much to be "one of the guys" tell him. He might not know how to treat a girl like a girlfriend. Its all depends on the guy, next time yall hangout or something do something kinda girly but fun!!!! I really hope that helps!

renderella

renderella says:

Posted on 30 Jan 2012

What is sweetest day? I never heard of that. Is it like valentines day? Anyway I know this was probably already resolved, but I believe that you're treated like one of the guys when you.dress and act like one

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