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Shelby Malouf

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so, hi...i have always kind of sucked at these kind of things but i will give it a shot....

so...my name is Shelby, i live in utah which also adds to the fact that i ski...love the sport. i love music of almost all kind...i dont like rap, bluegrass or country but iMore saduisahduiash dsau

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alildifferent asked:

27 Aug 2009

how can i get his attention?! he is driving me PSYCHO!!

so my friend that i have a crush on (none of my friends know) he has this thing that i like to call his 'school zone' all he focuses on is school. i tried to say hi to him and it was like i wasnt there.

i am not worried about it, he does it to everyone...he is special...

but i want to know how i can get his attention. we talked a bit at the stomp at our school. but i was mainly dancing with my friends.

i am good friends with one if his friends and his friend says he isnt mad at me or anything and that he likes me (in a friend way, but i wont give up hope)

he and i used to have a thing...of a sort, we liked eachother and knew it but it never went anywhere and he went out with this other chick (SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM FOR NO REASON!!)



what do i do?? i just say hi to him in the halls when i can tell he isnt focused...he looks piss off when he is focused...when he isnt he is always smiling. he is funny. he waves to me when he sees me from a distance and on the first day he was in a crowd calling my name..(i spun around looking for who was calling and saw no one and felt crazy at first...then he waved and i saw him and said hi back...i felt kind of dumb...)

but also...i am not so great with telling...i dont even want to consider the last guy i thought liked me...

it didnt end well.....

help! eep!!, he is in the yellow....i am in the red head...the other two are our friends (dont they look like they are dating? its funny) , if you cant see the pic its in my photos.

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jessie_girl

jessie_girl says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2009

it kinda makes things awkward when you guys used to have a thing for each other and nothing ever amounted to it. not to say that nothing can happen now, but it can put a damper on his feelings (guys get bored...argh). so you like him now, and he likes you as a friend, which means, since you heard it from his friend, that he probably doesn't spend a whole lotta time thinking about his feelings. any way to change that? well, you could try talking to him while he's out of his school zone, maybe put the focus a little more on him and less on your other friends (sometimes it can be tough, lol), but if you like him enough, it should be okay.

and while he's in his school zone, just kinda leave him alone, we wouldn't want him to get annoyed or think that you're too clingy already.

basically, anytime you see him where he's not all focused on school, make small talk, look him in the eyeeeeees, let him know that you think he's an alright guy. and gradually, if you guys talk more, hopefully you'll be able to tell if he likes you more, or if he still sees you as a friend. if the latter is the case, play it cool and give him time!

good luck and have fun!

italian_knowledge

italian_knowledge says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2009

Do no act desperate, i know u like him but try to like flirt and still be like i dont care at the same time and u said u guys sort of used to like each other so the flame never goes away its always there even though it might b small

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 28 Aug 2009

first are you the type of girl to wear a cute skirt or dress? i would try dressing up one day. (you can say your family has something to do that afternoon if you need an excuse)



and it's really good to have some things in common like movie tastes or sports or video games.



the guy i liked in school i told him i thought he was cute over an IM and we dated for about a year before i broke up with him. (it wasn't going to work long term)

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 28 Aug 2009

don't forget about flirting a bit like touching his arms as often as you can like putting a hand on his sholder when you're in a friendly situation and brushing up against his arm when you can be close



i like to hug on a guys arm all friendly like when we're doing something fun



and joking

dinosaurslykktechno

dinosaurslykktechno says:

Posted on 29 Aug 2009

i agree with italian_knowledge...

dont be desperate......no dude is

worth being desperate.....maybe

yooh can get his attention by doing

-silly things

-make fun of him (nd say jk)



etc.etc.etc.basically stuff lykk that....



thats what i do with mines...nd

it WORKS EVERY TIME!!!!(:

dinosaurslykktechno

dinosaurslykktechno says:

Posted on 29 Aug 2009

i agree with italian_knowledge...

dont be desperate......no dude is

worth being desperate.....maybe

yooh can get his attention by doing

-silly things

-make fun of him (nd say jk)



etc.etc.etc.basically stuff lykk that....



thats what i do with mines...nd

it WORKS EVERY TIME!!!!(:

dinosaurslykktechno

dinosaurslykktechno says:

Posted on 29 Aug 2009

i agree with italian_knowledge...

dont be desperate......no dude is

worth being desperate.....maybe

yooh can get his attention by doing

-silly things

-make fun of him (nd say jk)



etc.etc.etc.basically stuff lykk that....



thats what i do with mines...nd

it WORKS EVERY TIME!!!!(:

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