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05 Jul 1990

heyy im Alexa im 15 years old and im from PA. i love photography, singing and writing songs, and baking desserts. i have sleep insomnia so i stay up very very late or just dont sleep at all, and on school nights its super fun! not. ha thankgod for coffee :]. im a sophmore in high school. i have a HUGMore saduisahduiash dsau

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alexxaa55 asked:

18 May 2009

am i pathetic?

ok so im 14 and i havent even had 1 boyfriend :( .... i havent even had my first kiss .... is that pathetic? ... all my friends tell me that its fine if you havent kissed anyone and you should wait... but i feel like a loser... im very jelous of all my freinds cuz they are all in relationships and im the one who walks alone to class every day



barbipixi says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

honey, i was almost 17 before i got my first boyfriend and my first kiss

don't focus on guys like that they're not a goal it's great sure if one ends up wourth your time but sometimes focusing on getting a guy can get you in trouble

most of the first ones you meet won't be wourth your time as you get older it's easier to tell who cares and who's just dragging you around

it's also great to get your life started before you worry too much about a guy

you don't actually need one to be happy and no duh you will get one just don't rush it and don't stress. fate will let you know when it's your turn


shauna says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

Okay I'm 13 and ok Ive had a few boyfriends and stuff but to be honest dey didn't mean any ting to me boys arnt worth kissin if he's not chasin you and ur not a loser I no plenty of girls that are like you and they just don't care I've stoped likeing boys as much as I did cuz I love bein a single pringle it's great xxx shauna :)


stargirl says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

Honey you are NOT pathetic whatsoever. Everyone seems to be in a hurry to grow up. You are still a kid have fun, boys are drama and school is drama enough :P . But I do understand how you may feel alone or whatsoever. If it helps I am 19 and I still haven't been kissed (partly because of choice) but there were times where I felt left out with all my friends who have boys constantly hanging over them. But at the same time I know the right guy will come. And the right boy will come to you too, it just takes some time.


anca says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

NO your not pathetic!!!

You'll have a boyfriend sooner or later. I had my first boyfriend when I was 16 and I felt the same as you before I had a relationship, but after I realized that it wasn't even such a big thing.

It's best to wait until you find someone special :) :thumbup:


aylay says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

Hey, don't sweat it. ;]

The bottom line is... dating is for finding the person to marry. If you're not of marrying age, there's no point to it. Don't worry if you've never had a boyfriend. You're not missing anything but heartache and a twisted sense of what a relationship is!

I'm 16. Never dated or kissed, nor do I plan to anytime soon. You reach a point when you realize that none of that stuff matters. Heck, we're teenagers! We should be learning about ourselves and enjoying life, not getting caught up in some guy who you'll hate in a month.

Take it from me... hold your head high to be able to say you haven't been on a date. It's a smart choice if you're willing to take it. Not to diss your friends, but there's no reason to be jealous of them for having boyfriends.

Save yourself, and your heart, for your husband. Believe it or not, he'll appreciate it.

Wishing the best for you!


ikiwi says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

I'm 15 and I did have a boyfriend but I never kissed him, just take your time and go with the one that you really like...

Don't do something stupid like I did ok?


little_miss_brightside says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

lol i've only had one bf and i didn't even see him, can't even call him a bf

i was 15 when we started dating and i didn;t want to be with him

now i'm nearly 17 and i choose not to have a bf, all of my friends are coupled off but i perfer to be by myself and enjoy my time away

most relationships are overreated and are onlyb ever really worth it if your in love

so dnt sweat

your not pathetic your perfection and dnt let anyone tell you other wise



dreamincolor says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

You are definately not pathetic! If you think you're pathetic then I must be too, because Im almost 16 and have never been in a relationship and/or kissed a guy. Don't worry or be pressured just because your friends all have boyfriends and you don't. Really, dating at younger ages can just lead to all kinds of problems because you're pressured into doing things you might not feel ready to do, and guys are really immature and can be real jerks and very inconsiderate in their teens. Just be your wonderful self, stop stressing, and feel confident in yourself, whether you have some guy or not. It's not like relationships at 14 ever really amount too anything, in a few years all the guys your friends are dating now probably won't mean anything anyways.


georgie_babbs says:

Posted on 18 May 2009

nah dont worry about it. you are not pathetic, and tbh, dont rush growing up xD just have fun!!!!



emmylouwho says:

Posted on 19 May 2009

dont worry just think.. at least u dont hav to worry about ur boy fren breaken up wit u ps. that disney chanel star EMILY OSMENT hasnt had her 1st kiss


aislingrae says:

Posted on 24 May 2009

no you aren't at all! Dont worry about it, at the moment im the only single girl out of my friends and that can be annoying and lonely but you're only 14 dont worry too much. my friend only had her 1st kiss when she was 17 so you aren't pathetic at all. tell your friends you feel a bit left out & that you want to walk with them to class, im sure they wont mind at all(:


buttonz says:

Posted on 27 May 2009

mmm dont worry :] im in the same place im 16 never had my first kiss or anything! but it doesnt matter about that right? mostly you want to find the right person to have ALL those moments with :] its kinda hard tho because when u like some one and are with them you think they are the one you wanna spend your life with...i personally trust God with everything. :)


tls1 says:

Posted on 29 May 2009

you are not pathetic and your friends are right dont worry about it...maybe your not ready or maybe guys arent ready for your 14 guys your age are immature....and i know how you feel cuz im the same way...always the one walking to class alone...but dont worrry about it your time will come soon

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