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24 Apr 1994


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_yo0t_ asked:

11 Jun 2009

confused.. about a very complicated boy

so.. i've liked this guy in my math class, alex since the beggining of the year.. i'm sure he liked me back cause we flirted for so many weeks and we had so much in common.. then i found out he was a stoner.. and it upset me because he said he wasn't one and that he made fun of them.. (i overheard him saying that to his friend in math) and me being totally innocent didn't want him to be doing that stuff.. so i kinda avoided him.. we stopped talking really.. and then i got over it and said "you know? who the fuck cares that he's a stoner? half the kids i know are and they're pretty cool people" so i just didn't care anymore.. and since then all he would basically do is just stare at me.. and get really close to my face and poke me or something occationally.. and a couple months ago my friends bro asked him if he liked me and he said "she's a nice girl but i haven't really thought about her that way" and then after that he stopped flirting with me until about last week? now he's flirting with me again.. but i want to know if it means something.. cause i don't want him flirting with me out of bordom cause i don't want to get hurt again >.> but now i'm not really starting to see the point.. i have like two weeks of school left.. everyone thinks i should talk to him and ask him about it.. but i just don't know..

any advice? thanks



mandie_monsterhxc says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2009

Definately ask him about it. IF you dont you'll never know. Guys seldom make the first move and when they do, its usually very subtle. Maybe he's trying to tell you that he likes you. Boo about him being a stoner. It really doesnt matter that much. although if you did go out with him and become close then you could encourage him to stop. but basically just talk to him, or better yet write him a note or an email. its letting him know where you stand, without actually going to his face and saying it. Good luck!!!


add me by the way...haha:p


acid_nation says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2009

Do it.

Men change their minds all the time, stoners even more so.

I'll bet a small fortune he'll say yes.


kiwifruit says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

lol at acid_nation! xD Sorry. You're right. but it just came out funny


barbipixi says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

just remember guys are fickle and at your age go ahead and date, have fun, don't get talked into anything you don't want.

and yes there will be more guys after him as well so you'll be fine even if it doesn't work out


ctl888 says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

Get hurt again? How were you hurt the first time? You did not go out with him. Just because you over hear something a guy is saying to another guy.... you can't always take it as the truth. Guys will talk a bit differently to other guys then they do to girls.

It is up to you if you want to talk to him in class anymore... Guys can flirt with you or other girls...they just do. It is all up to you if you want to flirt back or just leave it as that. You must really like him if he can affect your so greatly. School is almost what have you got to loose?!?! Talk to him.


amaay says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

if you don't ask him, you'll never know, the worst thing he can do is say no. ;]


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