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24 Apr 1994


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_yo0t_ asked:

05 Oct 2011

Boyfriend and my future?

so i'm a senior, my plans after I graduate include me moving in with my boyfriend and maybe starting a future together. But it really depends on how well he does in school because I would like to be with someone who I love and who can provide for a family that we would maybe like to have. we've been in school for about a month. he already has 2 F's in easy classes and i know he isn't dumb because he passed a college entrance exam before I even did :( It may sound dumb or selfish of me but i'd like to marry someone who can provide in this economy. (and yes I know i'm young but every girl in a serious relationship considers this i'm sure) we're been through a lot together and he makes me happy. But i'm scared of the future and what could happen. what if I leave him and its the biggest mistake of my life? or what if I stay and his grades and efforts in school don't get better at all. then i'll feel like i've wasted time. I can't tell him this because it will only stress him out more..



hollebug says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2011

If you really love him I definitely wouldn't suggest leaving him. You're probably gonna end up having a serious talk with him about yall's future together and what he's planing to do. Maybe if you could, help him study and do better. (I know that sounded nerdy haha.) Dont give up on him too quick, give him a chance. I know how you feel about you wanting him to be a provider though. My boyfriend's 18 so i'm always thinking about that. If he really loves you he'll understand that he should be a provider and that he should want to be.


xxgeenalivelyxx says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2011

i think that you have to do what is best for yourself. You don't have to leave him, but you def should have a serious talk about his grades. My bf is 20 and I'm 19 and he has straight A's and knows what field of work he is gonna go in, knowing how much he will work, and the income he will get out of it. We wanna have a future together and he is making sure that he can take part in that financially and such. Also, in this day in age, alot of jobs aren't accepting diplomas anymore, now alot of them need associate's degrees and high-end jobs are needing bachelor's or even masters. Even if it stresses him out, you gotta give him that reality check. Career plans are getting tougher each year, I have seen it. He better get those grades up because even if you love him, you don't wanna be the one that is paying all the bills and such. You both love each other, so you gotta talk to him firm and strong and tell him the deal.
Hope everything works out.


_yo0t_ says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2011

thank you guys :) i'll make sure to have a serious conversation about this with him

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