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_riah_ asked:

04 Oct 2009

What to say? :)

Alright, so I really like this guy named Josh. He's a really cute/super cool guy that's a year older than me. Well he has talked to 2 of my friends and he has told them that he has liked me for awhile now. Well he wants to ask me out but I really want him to take me out on a date first and take things pretty slow becuase I am just old fashioned like that and I have never had a boyfriend before. I'm not saying I don't want to date him, but I just want things slowed down so things cannot be rushed, so we can have fun and become great friends first. What exactly do I say without hurting his feelings or making things weird? Thanks ladies!





auri says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

Maybe just ask like

"Hey you wanna hang out sometime?"

or something like

Go bowling or movies with a few mates and then it will appear more as a group date? depending on who you bring :]

Or if you cant maybe ask for his email or number to text and talk. Some guys let more of their feelings out and communicate better when they dont actually have to talk. =)

Good Luck hun!



barbipixi says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

uh hey wanna hang out with my friends on sat?

usually starting out in groups not just group dates but groups of friends can help keep things a bit toned down

you can totally tell him you like him and you want to get to know him. and see how up he'd be to going on a fun trip with you and maybe just one friend even. just let him know you like things slow so you can get to know eachother better before you maybe try dating


fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

if he likes you he wont think its weird-because its not weird. if he doesnt like it then hes weird and it prob wouldnt last long anyway. I think thats a very mature way of handling things and i think if you casually suggest it or just help him along by suggesting what you would like to do..then it should go real smooth. The only reason he may not like it is because he may not know how to take it slow but with your help I think he would even like that more. just dont forget to make sure he knows youre not blowing him off and are very interested-lots of smiles and extra attention when in groups with him and stuff will help


pinkyp says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009


Just explain to him you want to take things slow with you two, because you don't want to go out with him right away you want to get to know him further,

why don't you ask him on a movie date? hope it goes well :)


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

Just come up front and say so. Auri got it right. And trust me if you dont take it slow theres a really really good chance that it wont work. so stand by how you feel about taking it slow! cause most guys arent very patient when it comes to waiting, that happened to me. i wanted to actually get to know my man first better before dating him so i said we needed to take it slow but he pushed and i didnt stand by what i wanted, so then we got wrapped up in being bf & gf vs being bestfriends to eachother and we had been dating for 9 months when we realized that we really didnt know eachother like we should! so it ending in a fight, oh well. so stand by what you want!


gbpkid says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

ask him to a film or something.

or have a movie night at his or yours?

if you explain to him you want to go on dates first.. if he really does like you like he says to your friends ~ he'll understand :3

its perfectly normal btw, i do it too xx


blondie_91 says:

Posted on 06 Oct 2009

ask him to go see a movie with you one day or even at night :) just explain to him you wanna get to know him a bit better before rushing into a relationship. If he does like you he'll understand and take the time getting to know you better :) good luck lovely x

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