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_riah_ asked:

23 Oct 2009

In need of some advice...

Alright so, I am currently dating a guy named Josh. We have been dating for a week now and I realy really like him. He's a great guy and makes me smile, but I have been second guessing dating him. He is my first boyfriend and I just don't know if I should be dating anyone right now.



I kind of feel like we almost jumped into things too fast and I'd like to get to know him better and have some more fun before I make that kind of committment. Like, I said I really like him but I just have to do this. I don't want him to hate me, so what can I really say without making things weird or making it sound like I don't like him at all? I just am not ready to date right yet...



HELP please?



Thanks. :)





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fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 23 Oct 2009

tell him, you can say its not you its me, or that you just dont wanna date but you would love to be friends, and tahts the truth but he still may take it the wrong way. the sooner the better though. think of what someone would do if they were breaking up with someone and d the oppsite-make him feel very attractive and appreciated, make him a dinner or do something he really likes, then maybe kiss him and let him know if you had to date someone he would be it. but i think what you have decided is a very mature decision. :thumbup: good luck!

blondie_91

blondie_91 says:

Posted on 23 Oct 2009

I think he's going to overreact and I reckon (this is my own opinion not saying that it will happen) if you break up with him to get to know him better he might lose interest in you and move on..sounds really bitchy but thats from my point of view! I think you should just straight out tell him and I'm sure he would understand if not he's not worth having x

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 23 Oct 2009

Well there really is no easy way to tell him. and like Blondie_91 said he might get mad and leave. but if he does then i guess he really didnt want you and its best to find out sooner then later right? one things for sure you gotta tell him. I dated my first and after 2 weeks i really wish i hadn't agreed to be his gf, not that he was a bad guy or nothing! its just i wasn't ready so i was miserable and stressed.



i kept telling myself that i was being dumb for feeling like this but after 9 months i felt trapped and wanted out. And i was so happy and relieved after i had ended it. i know it sounds cold but if your not ready, then dating this guy is gonna be miserable, not fun!

bluegreenblue

bluegreenblue says:

Posted on 23 Oct 2009

as a guy, just tell him exactly what you just

said in the question you just asked and i'm suree

that he won't bee hating you or anything elsee

good luckko : )

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 24 Oct 2009

Trust your instincts girl. if you feel that it is not right for you. then explain to him. you have to do what is best for you and fair to him.

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