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_headfirstxfearless asked:

05 Aug 2010

Why is my brother so mean to me?

I probably sound like an 8 year old here, but whatever. I'm 14 and he's almost 17 but he acts like he's 12. He constantly punches me and pushes me on to the couch and it hurts a lot. Sometimes my parents even see it and do nothing about it. He also makes fun of me all the time about the dumbest things and I hate it. He's just an all around dick to me. Sometimes he comments rude things on my Facebook statuses. Like yesterday my status was the lyrics of a Taylor Swift song (they had no meaning what-so-ever to me) and he was like, "get over it" I thought maybe it would change as he got older, but it didn't. I'm just wondering, do/did any of you other girls have problems like this with your brothers? Will it stop soon? /:

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mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 05 Aug 2010

it sounds like he is goin through this whole adolescent moodiness like most guys (and girls) do.. they tend to be vulnerable at this stage. i also think this is a way for him to let out some feelings of frustration. i'm no psychologist but i do know, in a way, how teenagers think. your brother is probably being bullied and teased in class or by his peers. then he takes it out on you. talk to your parents about this and let them deal with him.



i have a younger brother and uhum, i used to be mean to him too.. so i guess it's pretty normal after all..we do grow out of it eventually, though... :-s

jjb714

jjb714 says:

Posted on 05 Aug 2010

You have to set your brother on the spot on facebook etc. But first try talking to your parents or talking to him and ask why he is being an ass to you. Unless he ignores you and doesn't care as to what you say. Put him on the spot anywhere from facebook to his real friends.

drama_queen

drama_queen says:

Posted on 05 Aug 2010

im 14 and i can tell u my brother is 21 or 20 and he is the same way my dad will tell him to stop then leave me home with the nut bar so i get pushed around and its not fun when u get pushed around plus if u get punched like i do then i hope u now how to hide it cause i usually get hit in the arm and it hurts like hell

vampkisses

vampkisses says:

Posted on 06 Aug 2010

i have an older brother and sister:/ when we were a bit younger my brother used to beat me up, and i never knew why. sometimes it was something as stupid as the show i was watching on tv that he didnt like (i was like 8 and him 9) but he grew out of it, i think he might have just been going throught something tough, and maybe your brother is too(or maybe hes just an ass),but you never know and if i was you i would ask him, start ignoring him(i no it sounds childish but they hate it when you dont do or say anything to them), start being an ass to him, or embarass him. good luck:)

drama_queen

drama_queen says:

Posted on 06 Aug 2010

i agree with vampkisses if u dont pay attention to him and pertend he is not there he will get pissed off plus its kinda fun to watch it might be childish but its better then sitting around getting hurt :D

shadyca

shadyca says:

Posted on 06 Aug 2010

oh god, this is normal stuff amongst brothers and sisters. I have a brother and he's teasing me all the time. teasing, being mean to me, pushing me, punching, calling me names and everything.but I love him. and the way he's expressing his love towards me haha.

and another reason why he's like that-he's a teenager dude. I'm his age and we're all obnoxious. xD

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Aug 2010

i would unfriend him on my facebook you live with him anyway he dones't need to be on there if he's being a butt



and i would tell your parents you want a sit down



your brother is suppost to be there to help you and protect you not treat you like a toy

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