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_ana_96 asked:

18 Nov 2009

my bf spent the night at some other girls house!

omg i am so mad and upset! i heard that my bf had spent the nite at some grls house so i asked him about it. he told me he did and then he was like but her bf was there so we wouldn't do anything! i trust him that he didn't cheat on me but it makes me soo upset that he spent the night at her house:( like how would he feel if i slept over at some other guys house! plus they were hi and drunk so what if they did do something but he just doesn't remember? i have no idea what to do because i dont really want to break up with him. and it's this one girl tht i reali reali don't like. and it makes me so jealous cuz he always gets hi and drunk with her like theres other people too but the rest are all guys.

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auri

auri says:

Posted on 18 Nov 2009

yeah i totally agree...thats totally bullcrapp! Ok so staying the night was one thing...but i mean drinking and drugs too? has he lost his marbles or what?

Im sorry girly, you deserve someone WAY better, and i doubt you wanna be around people you smoke and such right? I would just dump him and move on. yeah you had your first kiss with him and all but there will be more, and hopefully wayy better than how he is.



Im sorry, its completely stupidd to me and if he had any respect for you at ALL he wouldnt have done that. Sorry girly :/ there will be more fishies in the sea.

xx

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 18 Nov 2009

sorry girly but usually when a guy is getting high and drunk he's also partying in general with the folks he's with and that can include doing other things.



anyway y would you want to be with a guy who can't just have a good time with friends and you w/o having to be high and drunk? that is a serious character flaw honey.



i would say get out while you're only slightly attached before you feel the need to compete and get high and drunk and do things that you may regret later when you finally realize he's not a good guy

layzee

layzee says:

Posted on 18 Nov 2009

OMG you have the same boyfriend problems as I do!

Does he have a wierd past with gurls? Because my boyfriend does

and I really dont kno what to think of him becus he tells me that he feels like hes changed. OH one thing How do you feel about makin out?? Ive been with my BF for 7 Months (tommorow) & I havent made out with him because Im so scared Ive told him about it but I do kiss him on the lips. SO CAN U JUST W/B AND TELL ME YOUR EXPERIENCE?

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 18 Nov 2009

whether he did or didnt do something with her or any other girl doesnt matter at this point. 1. he didnt tell you you had to ask him 2. his reasoning for not cheating was that she had a bf NOT that he wouldnt cheat on you because he just wouldnt do that-what will happen when he is drunk and high again and is around a girl without a bf? 3. he gets drunk and high all the time 4. you can do better, yes, even after a whole seven months of dating (i did it to a jerk in the navy seal)-or you will end up getting hurt after even longer. do the scary but smart thing- leave him and wait for a guy who treats you like a princess not a dog

ahroarah

ahroarah says:

Posted on 18 Nov 2009

well, if it makes you feel better, it's rare for somebody to black out to the point of not remembering anything they did that previous night from drinking/drugs. usually people cannot remember because they don't want to remember, for whatever reason. if my boyfriend ever did that, i would have to have a serious talk with him about how it hurt me, etc. talk with him, don't freak out, just talk like mature kids. if you guys have different thoughts on how your relationship should be, maybe it's time to move on. i hope it all goes well.

cucumber_fanatic

cucumber_fanatic says:

Posted on 18 Nov 2009

Wow. If he's off getting high and drunk, he's definetly not worth it. I would dump him, and leave it at that. Obviously he cares more about drugs, alcohol, and himself then he ever would about you. Especially if he does all those things behind your back. I totally agree with ChelseaDianneDarling on this.

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 20 Nov 2009

humm...i don't know girl. you do have to becareful because excessive drinking and drugs can cause black outs and sometimes memory loss. And if he is starting to not remember then he is doing wayy wayy to much. That is not a good sign bc he does not know when is too much. (I took a drug info class and we had to learn all about this.) I think you might want to stay away from this bc I would not want you to get influenced. I know you do not want to break up with him but you might want to rethink things. If he is constantly hanging out with a girl you do not like.... ahh hello?!? You are his girlfriend, he should repect you and not hang out with her.. he should have other friends that he can do that crap with.. ( just saying).

_ana_96

_ana_96 says:

Posted on 18 Nov 2009

i havent made out with him yet. i kiss him on the lips but i dont reali want to make out with him yet. we've been together for 2 weeks. o and i had my first kiss with him like a week ago.

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