So I'm going to buy this high wasited skirt, that I just looove. But I'm not sure what shirt to get to go with it. I found this cute blue shirt that I think would go good with it, but then again I really have no idea! I'd appreciate any suggestions and opinions. :) also if this helps, I'm slightly on the larger side (as in, I'm not a tooth pick) and my bust is kinda large as well. Here's pictures of the skirt & shirt: 

Basically, I need some answers. I have this very specific mindset that I am fat and it's on my mind 24/7. Nothing is changing my mind. Nothing anyone can tell me will make me think other wise. I just feel so terrible because I see all these pretty skinny girls and think "why can't that be me?" why? I just can't seem to stop comparing myself to others. I could start from my feet and go to my head and tell you something wrong with every single feature of my body. Is there even a such thing as a self confident girl? How can I start thinking better of myself? It really depresses me, the way I feel about myself and I don't like it. Whenever I say anything to my mother about it, she only gets mad at me because of how I think. But she doesn't try to help. She's skinny, too. So it's not like she knows what I'm going through. My boyfriend, he's also skinny. Although he tells me I'm not fat, that doesn't help. How can I help this? :/

There is this guy, & I like him a lot. I've liked him for about five months or so, like instantly when I met him. But he has a girlfriend. He talks about how he doesn't really like to hang out with her much and she's annoying and immature. He told me, he doesnt "have the balls to leave her" and that "he wants to move on but doesnt want to break her heart." Then he texts me a lot and flirts with me and calls me "babe" and "dear." I guess basically, is that a sign that he likes me maybe? We've been hanging out recently a lot, and of course it's been amazing and all. my friend keeps telling me that I need to tell him I like him, that that could be just the push he needs to break up with his girlfriend. But I dunno. I'm not really one to tell a guy I like him. Maybe I would... If he didn't have a girlfriend? I mean. That just makes it so complicated. What if I tell him I do, and the things get awkward and we don't really hang out or talk anymore? :/ asdfghhjkl :( what should I doo?