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Published on: 20 Mar 2012 by renderella
I have several guy friends who were at one point my boyfriend and a lot of people think I am crazy. Why? I don't understand why so many people believe that you can't or shouldn't be friends with ex's. I think the absolute opposite.
You know what you do, you start off friends with someone, then you start liking eachother, then you date, then things go wrong, and you break up. Now where did it start? Friendship? Then it should end in friendship.
I'm not sure why anyone would want to give up a friend. Yes I know it hurs right after especially if it didn't end in the best of ways. I have been cheated on, yelled at, and just had my heart torn to bits, but I make sure that I remain friends with them. Yes, there are some that do not want to be my friends even though they said they would and you know what? I'm okay with that.
You forgive them and try to be there friend because you never know where the future may lead you. What if it brings you back to that person and they are now a billionaire, but they remembered how great a person you were and decide to help you out with your dreams. What if they are the ones struggling in life and need to ask you for a favor? Wouldn't you want to have no grudges against them and be able to help someone less fortunate.
Just because someone hurt you doesn't mean you need to hurt them and treat them like dirt. We are all human and we all make mistakes, some people make larger mistakes then others. I believe that you should always be the bigger person and treat others way better than they would expect you too.
Yes I have been the person who ends the relationship, but I always try to do it in the easiest and most respectful way. Sometimes it is really hard to do that and hurts a ton, but you don't want to stay in a relationship where you can't be happy.
So ladies and gentlemen, if you aren't happy with the person you are with, get out of the relationship. Don't stay in just because of how long you have been together, how handsome or beautiful they are, or even all the things you have done together, sexually and non-sexually. The most important thing to you should be your happiness. Think about it...if you stay in a relationship you hate and end up having children with that person you will cause your children to be extremely confused and maybe even have hatred towards you for confusing them.
Just remember: Sticks and Stones can break bones, but words and actions break hearts. Protect your hearts and your mind. I've been in Therapy, I've thought about suicide, and I have gotten through it all thanks to some wonderful friends and some of those were ex's.