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Published on: 28 May 2012 by renderella
SO you have been single for a while and you're driving down the road, listening to your favorite station, but for some reason you don't want to listen to it anymore. You flip the station and one of your favorite happy songs come on, but when you start singing along something happens to you. You begin to cry! The tears just come out of your eyes like a flood and you try so badly to stop them because you are driving, but they just wont stop.
You realize how much you miss being with someone, but why all of a sudden.
There are many things that trigger our emotions. That paragraph was me last week. I was a wreck and then the other day I saw the season finale of Glee and blew a gasket. I cried for over an hour! That's how much pain and hurt was bottled up inside, but I'm glad it came out. There's nothing better than a good healthy cry session. Now I say GOOD and HEALTHY because there are some very UNhealthy ways to cry. If you constantly think about your ex boyfriend/girlfriend/ best friend and then you hurt yourself because you wish they could be in your life, then that gets you no where. Crying because you physically hurt yourself is dumb. I realized how dumb that was when I did it. Why am I the one who is suffering on the inside, but then I go and hurt myself on the outside too!!? NO I shouldn't, that's where I needed to be the stronger person and say alright I am letting this go and not looking back.
YES! If you say those words and try to let go there will be many road blocks ahead, and even some obstacles, and YOU WILL cry, but it's all for the better. Why would you want to look all beat up when you TRUE Prince Charming/Princess comes along and sweeps you off your feet. You want someone to be able to love you for your flaws yes, but why do they have to see the scars that someone else gave you. Don't do that to them and definitely don't do it to yourself.
Do I regret anything I did? Nope, if I did not do the things I had done, I wouldn't be at the point in my life to where I can help others who have dealt or are dealing with the same things.
I love you BG community! ^_^
Stay safe and keep your hearts safer!!