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Published on: 02 Mar 2012 by renderella
So I have been seeing a lot of people who have gotten wrapped up in the world of cyber/online/creeper/stalker dating.
- First off I would like to say that I have met many wonderful men through the portal of the interwebs and I am very happy for most of them. Some come from Yahoo Messenger (most dangerous way, mostly old men), some from Meebo (Not too many people have heard of this, check it out), and then some from other means such as dating sites and games.
-My most recent relationship I had found through Espinthebottle.com, that relationship lasted 5 years. So yes online dating is possible and plausible, but don't just jump for the first guy.You need to make sure they know your real age. My friends parents get background checks on anyone she is deciding to date (she meets a lot of online guys). You want to be sure that they live where they say they live. If you need to, have your parent or a friend take you to their place of residence. I took my best friend ( a guy) with me just in case. Don't go into there house the first time, be sure to wait a while. Just because someone seems really nice, it doesn't mean that they are.
- Just because you found someone online doesn't mean you have to tell everyone. I think it's really weird when people talk about where they met someone. If I ask you, then sure you can tell me, but if not, then why talk about it. You can just say "wow, I met this great guy and now we are dating" or why even say anything. Let your closes friends know, not the whole world. That just makes breakups ten times worse. People will throw it in your face and say "that's why you shouldn't date online", "I always knew it wouldn't work out", and "oh you actually thought that would last"...HAHAH I have heard all of these and almost punched someone in the face.
Single people are cold hearted and some non-singles are too. Don't let anyone discourage you from seeking love which ever way you want.
- Take your time with it. You don't want to ever rush into anything. I will tell you right now that I took a month of TALKING on the phone & Hanging out with friends and relatives to see if they would be a good match for me. NOW if you are not allowed to date (i was like this at one point) and you are keeping it a secret...I would suggest not doing it because no matter how great you think your covers are, you are bound to get caught.
Plus think about it, what if they kidnapped you?! Your friends would just assume you were still with them,but that everything was okay. And if your parents wont let you date yet, don't throw a fit because they will just say "see you're too immature to date" digging yourself a hole would not be good.
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