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Published on: 06 Apr 2012 by isy
This is not a beauty post but more of a rant! Although this does kind of link to beauty in a roundabout way I guess.
We all have this one 'friend' (and I use the term friend loosely) who thinks that she is perfect.(please say you know someone like this or I'm going to think that I am weird) I do not have a problem with people who think highly of themselves at all. My problem is when these women (or men) feel the need to make others look bad in public to make themselves look better.
Let me give you an example (It happened to me and for the longest time I was really upset about it) This girl (Let's call her Kat for the purpose of this post) knew that I had failed a subject in my first year at campus (Everyone knew that I was really sensitive about it) and Kat had never ever mentioned it me. Then one day we were in a group and then she mentions it to a bunch of people I had just met!!
That's how girls like these operate. They do not 'Hate on you' in private but rather wait until a time that they can humiliate you in public so that you look bad and they look good. This is just one story. Kat has done a lot worse to some other girls.
Girls like Kat are often: beautiful, smart and get a lot of attention.So much attention that after a while they begin to expect the attention and the minute the attention is focused on someone other than themselves they feel the need to insult or ridicule others in order to reinforce their 'own self worth'
They are also the object of every guys fantasy (or so they think). I mean EVERY SINGLE guy is in love with them (yeah right).
Look, I love myself and I have insecurites and I know all women (and men) are insecure about something, which is why I dont feel the need to play on others insecurites to make me feel better. None of us are perfect.
None of us are perfect! That is something WE ALL HAVE IN COMMON! And if none of us are perfect who are we really to insult and humiliate someone else??
And that is the biggest point I wanted to make : NO ONE IS PERFECT!
So I feel sorry for women like Kat because unlike me she obviously has yet to accept that.
And trust me ladies that once you are happy with who you are flaws and all, It doesnt matter what women like Kat say and do.; YOU are confidant enought to shake it off.
I love all of you and I hope that you love yourselves even more
Remember Being Healthy is hot