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Published on: 14 Apr 2011 by isy

Instant messaging addiction and a bad week/month

HEY :-(


Let me start off my saying that this is not a happy post.So please feel free to reply with some kind words and motivation.


You know how it is when things start to go wrong but it doesn't really get you down until One thing happens and suddenly EVERYTHING HITS YOU AT ONCE and you feel like the world is just the worst place to be and you just wanna vent and cry or kill someone?

Well that pretty much sums up my mood right now. I am at campus so crying and murder in not an option so I choose to vent.


The event which set off this whole depression is my blackberry:-( IT STOPPED working!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And it has been 5 hours so far without any BBM or smss and calls! I feel so wrong you know?


The other events may seem petty and lame but together it call really mess with your wellbeing. According to some people (family) I now look a liitle chubbier than usual in my shorts. I have really bad issues with regard to my body and it hurts to hear these things. Look I know that my weight is normal for my height and age but if people start noticing a difference it puts me on edge.

Also I am really really stressed about one of my courses. I feel like I lost the plot and don't know if I can get back on track before the next test!

The last thing is my  realtionship status :SINGLE!!!  I am really fussy so I am not ready to commit to a guy that I already know. My cousin is getting engaged  next week. SO now I AM THE ONLY SINGLE COUSIN (there are others but they are like 14 so they don't count). And this places me under pressure beacuse now everyone wants to know when am I going to meet someone and they don't really believe me when I say that Its my choice. They all assume that its something else!



I hope that I didnt  bore anyone reading this and please as you can tell I need advice


It's my life



blovelee says:

Posted on 14 Apr 2011

Omg you poor thing. Look it doesn't matter how small/big your worries are, if they're annoying you then they're annoying you! I've just had exactly the same kind of month. Firstly, I had interviews to go on which I had to keep a big secret from my work which was really stressful. Whilst this was going on my fiancé was being an absolute git and getting all jealous about my work opportunity (lots of money bla blab la). THEN I had to hand in my resignation at work and had to negotiate backwards and forwards over whether to stay or not. In the middle of all this my sister gave birth (I was her birthing partner) and I had to watch my phone 24/7 whilst going to these interviews in London which was miles away! So basically at the end of all that I was SO stressed and down it was unbelieveable. Now, I feel a lot better and much more positive, you have to look at things logically and think, is this situation really worth getting upset about? What’s the worse that could happen. When I started thinking like that, I felt better almost instantly!! So don’t worry, life has it’s ups and downs, you can’t always expect it to be perfect and you have to ride the bad times out. X x Plus, stop worrying about being single otherwise you’ll give off the wrong vibe to guys. Stop looking, and they’ll all come out of the woodwork :)


isy says:

Posted on 15 Apr 2011

Thanks for the reply I feel a lot better knowing that I am not Alone in all this chaos.. I'm glad that you found a way to deal with all of your issues. I feel better today I think that the first day drama is always a bit exaggerated and the next day you feel silly for getting so worked up over nothing. But you are right so thank you so much

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