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Published on: 01 Dec 2008 by angelscrush
What that REALLY means.
For years, we have worn our emotions on our sleeves like a badge of honor. As women, when something is up with us, you usually know. However, the men in our lives aren't so easy to read. But when he stops wanting a good roll in the hay, you know something is up. We've got the insider dish on what his holding out could mean.
It could be as simple as feeling tense from work and his cavalcade of other responsibilities. We don't like to be bothered, much less touched, when we're stressed out. But you should handle his stress differently. Don't come out and tell him you know he's stressed -- be subtle. Try to make your environment calm and cool when he gets home, give him time to unwind and decompress, then just help him get his mind off work -- and onto you. You've Annoyed the Boy
He could be angry with you! We know all too well how guys don't fight and fuss the way we do when we're upset, sometimes they lock it up. Obviously, if there was a shouting match between the two of you, you'll know what caused his funky mood. But if you think you just slightly dissed him, try building his ego back up. The Future Freaked Him Out
Even the sturdiest and most committed of boyfriends might experience a little dry spell while they're milling over their next step with you. For men, sex is a bonding activity. If he's thinking about what to do next, he might pull back for a few days. If you've recently had a big talk, lay off bringing the topic of the big convo up again. You'll show him that you trust him to make his own decisions, and he'll have time to clear his head.Performance Issues
Maybe there was one night after a drink or two that he had a little bit of a problem -- ahem -- getting there. This seemingly random night might have thrown him for a loop, and he probably just needs some time to get passed it. If he freezes up in the sack again, casually mention something sexual he does that drives you wild, and he'll be back to normal in no time.
The sad truth may be that he's thinking about moving on. If he's considering ending your relationship, we're willing to bet that he has been acting strange for awhile. If this is the case, call him out on it -- otherwise, you're just prolonging the inevitable. Just have your bestie on hand because this could end up in a breakup.