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Published on: 09 Jan 2011 by angelface1997
how old is too old?
there is a poetiental relationship between me and this guy. hes really really sweet and smart, but i'm the cautious type, dont try to fall too deep so i wont get hurt. hes 19 and i'm 13. i was looking at atricles and advice colums on the internet and they say that hes just trying to get in my pants and that he wont wait for me if im not ready. i'm usually not the one to ask for advice and get into trouble, i'm the one that helps but im in quite the pickle. ive only known him for a few weeks but he says hes into me and i like him back. so far he hasnt pressured me into doing anything. and my friends bf is 19 and they have had sex (shes on the pill....lucky)
i dont wanna seem like a hoe or sleazy or anything but i kinda envy her because she gets to give up something to the guy she loves and he loves her back. i know how stupid i am for having feelings for him but it feels good to let it out since i cant really talk to anybody. and trust me i know all the risks and stuff.
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angelface1997 says:
Posted on 27 Mar 2011
CALM DOWN EVERYONE! HE AND I ARE NOT TOGETHER! MY FRIEND K.B. SAID IT WAS STUPID, AND NOW K.B AND I GO OUT (IM 13 AND HES 14) LOL. THANKS ANYWAYS.
jod_mets says:
Posted on 11 Jan 2011
I'm totally agreeing with Maeve, hun if he likes you so much - he will wait until you're at least 18 and you can handle the stresses and such!!!
angelface1997 says:
Posted on 11 Jan 2011
you guys dont understand the way we feel about each other.
megatron says:
Posted on 11 Jan 2011
Alright. Listen here, I'm not trying to sound mean or anything, but you're asking for advice. And then, when people give you advice, you get angry at them and say: "you guys dont understand the way we feel about each other." That right there is you just talking out of denial because you don't want to think that that could be true.
Now for my own opinion, the age difference is a bit immense right now. And don't you tell me that I don't understand because I do. When I was 14 I was with a guy that was about to turn 17. Now I know that the age difference isn't as great as yours, but just listen.
We had sex.
That, I can honestly say, was the worst mistake of my life. We had known each other ever since grade school, so I wasn't just being a 'slut'.
I don't even really know how to explain myself to you because you're just being so ignorant to the concept of sex. And just because your friend is on the pill doesn't mean that she won't get pregnant, so you shouldn't be envious of her. And I'm pretty sure you won't be envious of her when she gets pregnant and has a child of her own, will you?
The last thing I'm going to tell you is, just cool down. I know you think you love him; heck you really might. But just wait. Wait until you're older and more mature to handle things that come into relationships that are that serious.
angelface1997 says:
Posted on 12 Jan 2011
im not asking for advice im blogging about the way i feel
megatron says:
Posted on 12 Jan 2011
yet, the title of the blog is "how old is too old?" and the way that you have it set up is like you're asking for help.
I'm really not trying to sounds rude, dear. I'm just saying that from a past experience that it's be best to wait until you're older. Trust me.
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